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If Prince Harry wants reconciliation, why does he continue to trash the royal family?
Pascal Le Segretain / Getty Images If you enjoy the royal cover of The Daily Beast, we hope you enjoy The Royalist, a members-only series for Beast Inside. Become a member to receive it in your inbox on Sunday. It has been an intense 24 hour period in the Royal News cycle. Just after 2 p.m. UK time on Thursday, the BBC released a long-awaited report in the interview with Martin Bashir in 1995 with the princess. Diana, who concluded in no uncertain terms that Bashir lied and cheated on Princess Diana and her brother to get the interview. Eight hours later, William and Harry released coordinated statements in response to the report. Harry’s statement explicitly accused the BBC of being responsible for the death of his mother: “Our mother lost her life because of it, and nothing has changed,” he said. Royal reconciliation? No, the statement of Princes Harry, Charles and William are still at WarWilliam, delivered via a video posted to Twitter, was also accused: “It brings indescribable sadness to know that the BBC’s failures have contributed significantly to his fear. , his paranoia and his isolation that I remember. As the two brothers, united in their mother’s grief, constructed their very different statements, reporters around the world watched drafts of the new documentary on Harry’s mental health in which he unloaded, once again, on his father. in particular and on the monarchy in general. Hours later, the entire five episodes appeared in the lineups of Apple TV subscribers. The True Devotees have been lying awake all night, watching and analyzing them on social media. No one disputes the fact that Harry had a horrible and traumatic childhood, and this documentary makes it very clear. No one disputes that it is vitally important to de-stigmatize talking about mental health and that celebrities can play an important role in this regard, as shown in Lady Gaga’s incredible interview for the documentary (although she wasn’t considered important enough to be interviewed. by Oprah, only Harry did, was a little odd.) But it seems increasingly odd that Harry is unable to speak to her unmistakable trauma. very public childhood grief without humiliating, embarrassing and humiliating his father, while simultaneously boasting of his own sense of “compassion.” Harry accused his father of intimidating him, of telling him that because he had to “suffer” Harry too. He accused the monarchy of “conspiring” with the media to smear Meghan and fail to protect her mother. He said their attempts to leave royal life were blocked and made impossible. He said no one had told him about his mother’s death. And he accused the family of “total silence, total neglect”. It was quite amazing to hear a clearly very angry Harry, as he spoke of “the forces working against us,” say, “I never got angry about this.” . I have always had compassion. In fact, Harry looks just as angry and bitter as he has looked in other interviews. It’s understandable. But where he sees the “compassion” in all of this is fascinating. Harry also seems to believe that his previous interview with Oprah was also an example of “compassion in action,” as the Archewell website describes the Sussexes mission, saying of the previous interview with Oprah, “I like to think that we were able to speak the truth in the most compassionate way possible, leaving an opening for reconciliation and healing. ” Huh? You would have thought that the first step towards reconciliation under these circumstances and acting compassionately towards your father would be to stop publicly snatching pieces from him, but suddenly these movies weren’t really about Harry in the face of anxiety. caused by her fear of flying to London using trendy new therapies like tapping. It wasn’t even the deeply unpleasant implicit comparison between Harry’s plight and a tragic Syrian refugee child who found his brother torn to pieces in an Idlib playground. Documentary filmmakers appeared to be trying, at one point, to get the child to overcome his unimaginable trauma using the same tapping therapy, also known as EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), that Harry used in his 17 million mansion. dollars to Montecito to heal. his panic attacks at Heathrow.No, as we neared the end of episode five, The Me You Can’t See degenerated into a rehash of the same old list of Harry and Meghan grievances, very familiar and very seen by all readers of Finding Liberté. The speech therapy topspin provided a rationale for Oprah to invite Harry to revisit the details of her family feud.There is an odd thread here, for those who wish to see it, back to Diana’s interview. Panorama.Diana thought she was in control when she sat down with Martin Bashir. Despite all of Harry and William’s conscientious and utterly understandable attempts to portray Diana as the hapless, naive, and innocent victim of a complicit media machine and rogue journalist, the truth is that Diana absolutely cooperated with Bashir for the sake of it. ‘interview. She wanted to do it. She wrote him a note after the interview saying that she had not been coerced or tricked into doing so. She told her friends that she considered the interview a triumph and collaborated with countless other reporters in a desperate effort to get her story known, including sending Andrew hours and hours of tape recordings. Morton for him to use in his book on her. And guess what? His story has become sensational. The parallel with Harry is strange. Harry doubtless believed as much as Diana did that he was totally in control when he sat down to tell his story to Oprah. He was co-producer of the show for God’s sake! But Oprah makes a product, just like Martin Bashir was all those years ago, and Harry is the raw material, just like Diana was all those years ago, and one wonders if Archie could conclude that his father was operated by Apple in the same way as its own. grandma has been exploited by the BBC if he sits down to watch Oprah’s warm conversations with him in 25 years. Register now! Daily Beast Membership: Beast Inside delves deeper into the stories that matter to you. Learn more.